a life update

I am not a sharer. Well let’s clarify that because now I sound like a bratty kid that won’t let you play with my ball.

I have no problems sharing my stuff. I am not good at sharing me and my personal stories. Which, I know, makes writing a blog a natural fit. It ain’t easy folks but I am going to give a go for you. In the reader survey more personal posts were requested and someone really wanted to hear about my move and journey so far, ask and you shall receive.

The Move:

The actual physical move was surprisingly low stress. We had a great time visiting family along the way and I enjoyed taking pictures and cultural landmarks. Is a corner really a cultural landmark? The amount of souviener shops would certainly have you believe it is something.

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look at that lady in the flatbed Ford slowing down to take a look at me….

Tom and I both really enjoyed Oklahoma City and will head back some day to catch the OKC Thunder and the AAA Baseball team, The Redhawks, play. We also loved St. Louis and know we will be there to watch a Cardinals game as we complete our goal to go to all 30 major league baseball parks. We have completed 6 so far, San Francisco, Oakland, San Diego, Dodgers, Angels and Cincinnati. The best meal we had was in St. Louis at Mango. If you go try the fun cocktails and a piece of Pionono cake for dessert.

Life in the Midwest:

Well it is different there is no doubt about that, but we love it. The pace, the people and the free time we have now has be a welcome change. Being close to my family and friends after 16 years has also been very welcome. I do miss being so close to our Southern California family. We have also settled in as sports fans, made it to all but one Colts game and have seen two Pacers game with a third next week.

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I am so tiny…

Snow on Halloween, however, was not a welcome change. Apparently, the cold is now here to stay and I am not at all outfitted properly for the weather. While I may freeze my tookus off, the change in seasons has amped up my excitement for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I really can’t wait to sit by the fire on Christmas Day. This will be the first year we are all under the same roof for Christmas. Coming down the same stairs on Christmas morning as a kid is almost more excitement than I can handle. Maybe I will even wake my brother up at 4am to play games, eat candy and send him to ask my parents if we can go downstairs yet ever hour on the hour. Just kidding, I will let everyone sleep even though I know I will be wide awake. If this winter is as rough as last winter I may be seeking refugee with those Southern California relatives even sooner than I thought.

It took a little time, about a month, for Tom to find work but he is enjoy his job in sales. I am loving my new role and limited responsibilities. Added bonus the people I work with are great and make it extra fun to go to work again. I have only been working about 4 days a week which has been a welcome surprise.

The Blog:

The nice surprise of only working my paycheck job 4 days a week has afforded a lot more time and focus to my slice of the internet. I built a light box which is my new favorite thing and has dramatically increased the quality of the photos. I still love my macro lens more than any other toy so expect a lot of close up shots.

I am going to ALT Summit in January and could not be more excited. I got my first bag of swag in the mailbox, found out Jess Lively will be there speaking and started working on business cards. I feel so official working on business cards. With the need for business cards came a new logo and some tweaks to the banner. I fell like I have an official color palette I love now and can move forward without touching it for at least a couple months!

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In December and January you will start seeing my writing on a few other blogs as a contributor which I am super stoked about. They are great blogs and I am excited to get to know some new readers. When my first posts are live I will let you know on social media.

Today should be the day I announce the book of the month, but honestly my heart just never got into the idea so I won’t be doing any more books at this time. Instead I am coming up with some new features based on the feedback I got from readers. There will be a few more series that involve recipes. Nothing is completely hashed out yet so if you have ideas now is the time to let me know. One feature that is ironed out is Date night. Every month I will be sharing dinner and a movie ideas for you and your special someone or your movie buff friends. Look for the first movie next Friday.

I have a couple other BIG projects in the works but they aren’t quite ready for unveiling so that will just have to wait until the next update.

Consulting:

I put myself out there and offered up my services of consulting/coaching and am looking forward to helping people tackle big projects. Since I am just getting started I am trying out some new things. If you are interested in trying my services send me a message I think that you will find the options extremely budget friendly for the next few months, like they won’t put a dent at all in your budget. Spots are limited so don’t delay if you are interested as prices will increase in March.

House Hunting:

I am most excited about this. We are giving it a few more months to get settled financially and then we will be on the house hunt in January. We are strongly considering Irvington, a historic neighborhood not far from downtown Indianapolis, because of my love for old homes. I am no Rehab Addict but I prefer character over a home that was built to look like all the others on the block. The biggest thing I am looking for is a kitchen that hasn’t been remodeled because I know I want my own space and why pay money for kitchen remodel I am just going to tear out. My public service announcement for the day: Could we please stop with the glass mosaic tiles they are getting boring.

I will have more frequent updates about house hunting on Instagram and even more details on Facebook. If you love a good house hunt get there now and follow along so you don’t miss a thing!

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Welcome to Monday! Last week I took the week off from my paycheck job to celebrate my birthday and get some work done on this little slice of the internet.  I have lost of fun posts planned for the next few weeks. Including some new recipes that will be in your hot little hands just in time for Thanksgiving.

One of the pieces I worked on last week was to bring you this little reader survey. In the 7 years I have been blogging I have never asked you’ll what you thought so we are long overdue for this survey. Please be honest with your feedback so I can make this the most helpful place possible. You never know your idea might kickoff the next great post or series.  Thank you for taking the time to fill out the survey.

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why finding your why is important

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A little morbid, I know, but your legacy is the most important thing you will leave behind. There is nothing more important than trying to be the best role model possible. That effort will impact people now and from beyond the grave. I will admit that I care what people think about me so I care about my legacy. I want to be remembered as someone who made people feel good about themselves.

I have read a lot about finding your WHY lately. A powerful idea for business, and just as powerful for individuals. My belief in my why is what gets me out of bed in the morning and what is hopefully creating an impact and leave a lasting legacy.

My why is I want to help people.

It is that simple. I want to help in every way possible. That is why I write this blog, because I want to help people learn about new topics. That is why I decided to offer coaching packages, because I want to help people feel confident and know they are heard. That is why I sometimes drive my husband crazy, because I want to make everything easier for him which is sometimes too helpful (oops). It is at the root of everything I do. It is why I stop to pick things up for people when they drop them. It is rooted in my big decisions and small gestures that seem automatic.

This simple idea can help us figure out if a new project or opportunity is right for us. If someone came to me and said we would like for you to promote our product to your readers, and let’s say it is a product that is a scam or a fad that would be junk in a few months, I am going to say no because it doesn’t fit with my why. It isn’t helpful to anyone but my pocketbook. It would be a tough decision especially if my pocketbook could use some extra cash, but sticking with my why the right answer would be immediately clear.

Sticking with my why allows me to help people and it allows me to make them feel noticed, appreciated, and heard. Which I hope leaves a legacy that impacts people even when I am gone.

Do you know what your why is?

You have a why already even if it isn’t put into words yet. It helps you make tough decisions. It is that gut feeling you have when you know it is the right decision. It is the reason you get more excited about one opportunity over the next.

Your why can be anything.

You could decide that your why is to challenge the status quo and start working on grassroots political issues.

Maybe you are very spiritual and want to share it with the world that might mean you go on a mission project.

If your why is wanting to create beauty for others to enjoy you might become an artist.

Someone that wants to capture priceless moments for other people might become a photographer.

If you look back on past moments, jobs, and events that really made you feel alive and shine it probably has something to do with your why. Think about those times and the things you are most excited about in the future and you will be honing in on your why.

What you do with it is as unique as you.

You may not always use your why to be a missionary, photographer or politician. You might switch it up and be a writer or a speaker. It all will, however, always come back to your why.

The most successful people know what their why is and work outward from there. For example, a new online group was recently started call #fireworkpeople. It is only a few months old and already has over 400 extremely active members which is no small feat. It is a group of women that rally behind each other in the good and the bad every day. It was all started by one lady, Ashley, who has a very strong why. If you need a little love and support head over to the facebook group or join the twitter chat Tuesday nights at 9pm/est. hashtag #fireworkpeople

Leave a comment, share your why and what you are doing with it .